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Author Thompson, Becky W

Title Mothering without a compass : white mother's love, Black son's courage / Becky Thompson
Published Minneapolis : University of Minnesota Press, ©2000

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Description 1 online resource (167 pages)
Contents Put my head in her hands, our two heads together; Witness to the telling; Limb from limb; Telling, not telling, still hurting; What part of the story do I tell?; Heart on the table, in my hands; In the age of no innocence; Lost time, in time, on time, with time; In the gaze, in the tone of the voice; Much of the script, already written; Father love; Mother love; Sex education in the 1990s; So grown; Sand beneath my feet, the tide takes its turn; Acknowledgments; Notes
Summary "In 1997, Becky Thompson began parenting nine-year-old Adrian at the request of his mother, changing both of their lives forever. Mothering without a Compass is the story of Thompson's first year as the white lesbian "sudden-mother" of an African American boy. From the everyday yet sometimes overwhelming tasks of finding Adrian a school and debating the significance of action figures, to unexpected discussions about who pays whom at the sperm bank and the more complicated matters of racism, sexuality, nontraditional families, open adoption, love, and loss, Thompson gives us an absorbing and often humorous account of her experience with antiracist, multicultural parenting." "Mothering without a Compass relates a lesbian parent's struggle to help her child grow up and describes the complexities facing children who have more than one family."--Jacket
Bibliography Includes bibliographical references (pages 167-168)
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Subject Lesbian mothers -- Family relationships -- United States
Women, White -- Family relationships -- United States
African American young men -- Family relationships
Children of gay parents -- Family relationships -- United States
Mothers and sons -- United States
FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS -- Parenting -- Motherhood.
SOCIAL SCIENCE -- Women's Studies.
African American young men -- Family relationships
Children of gay parents -- Family relationships
Lesbian mothers -- Family relationships
Mothers and sons
United States
Form Electronic book
ISBN 9780816636365
0816636362
9780816691876
0816691878