Cover; Contents; Introduction; PART ONE: WHY NORMAL PEOPLE HAVE SEXUAL DESIRE PROBLEMS; PART TWO: HOW WE CO-EVOLVE THROUGH SEXUAL DESIRE PROBLEMS; PART THREE: SEXUAL DESIRE PROBLEMS: HOW YOUR PERSONAL LIFE FITS IN; PART FOUR: USING YOUR BODY, REWIRING YOUR BRAIN, AND CO-EVOLVING IN BED; Appendix A: Referral Information; Appendix B: Overcoming Discomfort with Oral Sex; References; End Notes; Index
Summary
Many couples begin marital counseling with Dr. David Schnarch with their sex lives in shambles, wondering what's wrong with them, considering divorce. One partner will complain that the other doesn't desire him, the other complains that she's married to a sex maniac. During his 30 years in practice as a marriage and family therapist, Dr. Schnarch has discovered that sexual desire problems are normal and even healthy, in committed relationships. In Intimacy and Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship, Dr. Schnarch explains why couples in long term relationships have sexual desire proble