"Two homes with no fighting" : the destination -- They said it couldn't be done : beliefs about family life after divorce -- The view from where you stand : a self-survey -- The map : from one home to two homes -- Watch your language : how your words describe your status -- Your human income : how to take stock of your resources -- The emotions of ending a marriage : how they help and hinder the working relationship -- The retreat from intimacy : how to take the first steps toward a new working relationship -- The new working relationship : how to relate to the other parent -- Mom's house, dad's house : how to make them homes -- Business matters : first negotiations on responsibilities and rights -- The legal business : how to write your own parenting agreement -- Your children : giving them security and continuity -- The open family : extending parenting to include relatives and friends -- Long-distance parenting : how to feel close when you are far apart -- After two years : bottlenecks and breakthroughs
