Cover -- Half Title -- Endorsements -- Title Page -- Copyright Page -- Contents -- Acknowledgements -- Preface: May we all continue to be brave -- Introduction -- 1. Irv who? (Trish) -- 2. Unstable sense of self (Dan) -- DIALOGUE 1: How do we define collaborative writing? -- 3. A fine balance (Trish) -- 4. Letting go (Dan) -- DIALOGUE 2: The book of laughter and remembering -- 5. Writing into healing (Trish) -- 6. Butterfly moves (Dan) -- DIALOGUE 3: Breaking up is hard to do -- Conclusion -- References -- Index