""Contents""; ""List of Illustrations""; ""Foreword""; ""About the Author of the Foreword""; ""Acknowledgments""; ""Poetry Acknowledgments""; ""A Note on the Title""; ""Introduction: After the Fall""; ""Chapter One: Uncertainty""; ""Chapter Two: Why Now? Why My Family?""; ""Chapter Three: Secrets""; ""Chapter Four: Mistaken Identities""; ""Chapter Five: Early Signs and Symptoms""; ""Chapter Six: You Look Like Your Mother""; ""Chapter Seven: There�s a Tornado in My Head""; ""Chapter Eight: Helping the Doctor""; ""Chapter Nine: Icebergs in Paradise""; ""Chapter Ten: Managing at Home""
Chapter Eleven: What Would She Have Chosen?Chapter Twelve: Did You See The Notebook? -- Chapter Thirteen: What Not to Say -- Chapter Fourteen: Managing in a Nursing Home or Assisted Living Facility -- Chapter Fifteen: Collecting Memories -- Chapter Sixteen: Her Legacy -- Chapter Seventeen: Shadows -- Appendix A: Turning to the Web -- Appendix B: Texts on the Subject -- Index of Poems -- Notes -- About the Author
