Cover; Half Title; Title; Copyright; CONTENTS; Introduction; Part 1: Awareness; 1 When and Why Couples Lose Sexual Desire; 2 Whose Problem Is It? Hers, His, or Ours?; 3 Turnoffs: Poisons for Sexual Desire; 4 Finding Your Voice: Celebrating Female Sexuality; 5 The New Male Sexuality: Confronting Autonomous Sex Performance; Part 2: Change; 6 Being an Intimate Sexual Team: Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style; 7 Building Anticipation: Bridges to Sexual Desire; 8 Attachment: Enhancing Intimacy; 9 Nondemand Pleasuring: Let's Play Touchy-Feely
10 Challenging Inhibitions and Avoidance: Be Sexually Present11 Creating Erotic Scenarios: Vital Sexuality; Part 3: Relapse Prevention; 12 Maintaining Gains: Keeping Sexuality Vital and Satisfying; 13 Intimate Attachment: Enhancing Your Bond; 14 The Erotic Marriage: Lusting for Life; 15 Valuing a Satisfying, Secure, and Sexual Relationship; Appendix A: Choosing a Sex, Couple, or Individual Therapist; Appendix B: Suggested Readings; References
